Had our second date. W asked to go golf with her. We haven't done that since last year (and we belong to a country club). We had a great time. She also asked me to goto dinner after. I tried to make every convo about her (you you you) and kept "I" out of it. I think it went great. Best thing, it came normally.
I just want you to be prepared for what's likely ahead- in my sitch and in many others here the WAS initially showed what appeared to be interest in making things work including MC, dates, etc. But often they are well and truly done and they just do these things to "prove" that they "tried everything" but that the M is dead. The WAS is on their own journey and there's nothing you can do to speed them along. In fact, often when you try to fix things it just slows their journey down and distracts them from the work they need to do on themselves. That's why DB'ing pushes giving the WAS time and space.
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I started to ween myself off of lexapro too. I have anxiety. But I think I am going to start back on it full time.
If you've only been S'd for 6 weeks then it's too soon to ween off of A/D meds. Discuss it with your PCP, but I suspect they will recommend staying on them at least a few more months.
