I told him last night and I still feel that way this morning. I don't regret it. It's a decision I've given a lot of thought to.
He has treated me like something he scraped off his shoe all while giving the time, energy, attention, devotion (and money!) he promised his wife and kids to OW.
He has seen the kids 5 days this month yet is taking OW out of town for the 3 day weekend. He saw the kids 3 days last month.
I have offered him compassion, patience, support and grace throughout this entire process and he continues to choose her over his family. He has no desire to ever end the affair.
She can have him. I can not respect myself for being with someone that treats me like this. I deserve better.
