well just got back from trip...and W was angry we did not call more and tell her when exactly we were coming back...I told her she could have called and she said she did a lot but I checked the phone records and saw that no she did not call a lot but I did not tell her that. W also told me that her boss wants to hook her up with her "rich friend" soley because he has money...that kinda hurt...
I would just say you never had any missed calls and your not interested in hearing about who people are trying to set her up with. It's quite insensitive of her and it's up to you to tell her whether you want to hear about it or not.
I honestly don't know anything about your sitch I've just read your last few posts. Have you done anything with boundaries?
Originally Posted By: 7720
well I am now past the 1 year point of W being gone and I feel like I have hit a brick wall for some reason..I was doing so well GALING and such and then when I came back from vacation with my kids I found myself missing her a lot and I don't know why because before I left I did not find that...maybe it was her telling her boss wants to set her up with a rich guy and stuff...maybe I thought all this would be over after a year.
I think it's quite common for these feelings after a vacation or anything significant in our lives. Getting back to real life can bring us down.
Detach, GAL, and keep going.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
