I am sorry things are so crazy and your H is so lost. I admire you for still wanting to stand for your M, I also hope you find a lawyer to help you in the meantime.
Were any of the lawyers women? I only ask because when my D was little, her dad took to me to court over custody repeatedly, for different issues and we spent almost 5 years going. I had a female attorney who knew my situation (broke!) and after she took a $1000.00 retainer, she never charged me again. I know most won't be that nice, however, if you keep looking, you may find one who is compassionate and willing to give you some kind of break. Also, we have a place in our state called We The People, and you can get almost any legal form you need and get help filing them but it is fairly inexpensive. I'm not sure if the people who run it are actually lawyers but they know what they are talking about and they help you for a small fee. Do you have anything like that?
It sounds like this may get a lot worse before it gets better and you really may be in danger of losing your home if you don't find a lawyer fast.
I'll be praying for you
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
