wife hardends heart-3

[planet]

In this country, you call the police or family court when threats like that are made. It also sounds unstable of her.

I have advised her to seek counseling over her 'anger' issues. It's not healthy and she acknowledges it but refuses to do something about it. I am responsible over her current state of 'anger' and i just want her feel better.

Do you have a L or not? You need an advocate.

We will be revising our joint divorce agreement to include the new arrangement. L will oversee the revision.

I don't know how much it is, or if it is any of HER business at all. I'm just saying your situation is not a good one.

It is a really small amount to give to my parents but since W says that i should prioritize her and the kids, i have stopped giving.

Your w & children are your priorities. If you cannot afford a place of your own, you are in no position to be supporting your parents. Save up to have a place for your kids, with You.

I intent to get a place of my own. Saving up is going to take a very long time. I hope that my project takes off and that should make things a little bit easier.

It sounded like your lifestyle was pretty high. You could have cut down a little and just been happy with what you had. And your W should have supported you.

Does she bother you about what your spending habits were? If you're going to talk to her about finances, you also have to do it in a way where she doesn't sound accused of something.

Our lifestyle was pretty high. It's too much for me and i have let W know in the past but she always thinks that we can manage.
I don't have a spending habit. I don't really have much to spend anyway. I gave almost everything to W.