You're hurt and you want to hurt her. Is that really who you want to be?

When you are are in this mindset, she does control you because you hand the control over to her by reacting to everything she does.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss