I thought about it, and the opertunity presented itself. I decided to let wife know what my intentions were, that I was moving forward with the divorce. We had a 2 hour conversation, everything from financial, to past relationship, to her new relationship and everything in between. I told her how I felt and that I think this whole thing is not what it should be. She cried, but today I was able to stand strong and not shed a tear. She bitched and complained about the fact she deserves money to move on, but I stated my end. I think deep down she gets it. I told her I will let her know how the process goes with my attorney. I also expressed that I want to be as fair as possible, but I am also not going to jeopardize my own future to better hers. We are parting lives and moving on.