Ok. So sent the following:

Me (3:10): Hey .. Was just thinking about you smile .. Did u ever get that pay increase to go along with your work increase?

Her (4:20): No $$$$ ... [censored] but at least I have work. Grateful for that. At regional manager meeting in xxx river rafting and camping for 2 days. Gonna be back in (hometown) on Wednesday. U free in evening to meet for a drink?

So I get my opportunity. I think I will say yes and suggest a place and time. Maybe this past weekend didn't set me back. I am hopeful!!! But not too much smile


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)