He does stuff like that for me all the time, even now while he's emotionally emeshed in this toxic relationship with the Russian. I always thought it was so nice and made sure to show appreciation for his kindness, but suddenly I realized that that is how he shows his love for me.
One little thing that the book does not address - if your H SPEAKS Acts of Service, odds are that his RECEIVING language is Words of Affirmation (most of us DO acts of service in order to HEAR those words of affirmation "Oh honey, thanks for detailing my car, you are awesome!").
