I agree with F I didn't realise that your sons weren't in touch with you, I must've missed that post. It's nice that you're building up that bond between you and your sons
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!