Wonka,POF is free. I did ok there and my best friend gets way more dates using POF than one of the paid sites he uses. But the moniker, Plenty Of Freaks, is there for a reason lol. Again, when people pay they feel a bit more committed than a free site where those seeking validation can do so at no charge. The nice thing about guys is that if they want sex only they throw it out there real fast, they don't date you for months looking to score. I say, just relax and connect with those who show interest and see where it goes. It is a bit intimidating cuz you feel like your desirability is dependent on a bunch of strangers you don't even know. So, it's OK to be nervous...and remember to date safe, if you have any discomfort with anyone who contacts you then don't meet them. But, there really are guys out there looking for companionship but to meet them you have to be out there. I was quite happy with the ladies I met, only one ended in a relationship...which is all I needed and it lasted 15 months, but I enjoyed the time I spent meeting the other ladies too. Never did I feel I'd wasted my time. So no horrible experiences to report. Relax and see where it goes.
