I am not telling you to do either or - I am just suggesting that you don't make the decision right now and that you don't talk to W right now! You need to be able to look back, at this decision whatever it turns out to be and in the future to come believe you didn’t act in anger. I believe this will serve you good later on.
I remember the last time very well – I was the one that told you at that point, that she wasn’t cheating on you! IMO this is totally different – this is simply way across any line of sense and reasonable behavior! This is your call and yours alone! We will all be here and support you no matter what you choose
All the best!
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.