It s ucks! big time! My X has done the same for me. Says what he pays me in spousal support is also for the kids. S21 in college and D22 also in college but is disabled from car accident that he walked away from once she returned from hospital.

Nothing! They get nothing from him except $100 for birthay and $100 for Christmas. He was such a great father and believed in family and the whole nine yards...what a joke. He's with OW whom he left for after daughter came home.

Yes. I am the kids emotional support, throught it all! The accident, the changes in their lives with the divorce and with the transistions through college and losing our house, etc.

My kids know I am there for them. It kills me that they don't see any of this of their father. I want to just scream at them! But all I can say is I have nothing but love for him.

I will never understand, and probably never should even try, how can these WAS just so caulously walk away. Feeling guilt free from what they wiped their hands from.

He and OW are in long distance relationship and I have since moved with D a far distance to take her to SCI recovery facility. He sees D twice a year....OW every other weekend, trips to Europe, fishing in Canada... I get nothing from him! But neither do his kids!

Hang in there it could be so much worse. He just is revealing his TRUE colors. I can't believe these are the same men,


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW