One giant leap forward! - Part 4

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T,

Hold your horses for a second and think back through your sit…..

You have been in the exact same spot once before and that was also about OM!
I remember your anger then and I see it now! I understood it then as I understand it now.
I read the same feelings surfacing and you need to cool them down right now!

Do not speak in anger! This goes if you choose to end things but also if you don’t! Speaking in anger is much worse than not speaking at all! You have been and still are a jedimaster of DBing so that’s exactly what you should do!

I'm going to be careful to not tackle them right now or W may see this as me being punitive. Some of it actually could be, I'm not the best judge right now.
So true – so don’t say anything that could be judged!
When I told you to take a break the other day it was a break from W, sit, forum – just all of it! I am talking about two or three days.

[quote=Sandi]However considering my W's recent treatment of me does she deserve even that much?

Again going on her recent actions and the way she expects things I don't believe she deserves that much form me.

Sounds punishing to me and I do understand why you feel this way! She deserves a #!”%#”(&! for this kind of behavior but if you go down this anger-road she will be in control! She will have gotten to you! You know the drill, the words, it all – so right now cool off, have a run and a beer, let W be W and figure out what you want, but first let go of some of the anger!

Hopefully Sandi will be back with some more solid and actionoriented advice than mine, but the above is what hits me!

I do feel and pull for you!

F