yes, this is what I am going to do. But, I am the one who forced the divorce issue and now she is planning to respond further. So its going to come up again because of me. the longer she takes to get back to me with also indicates she is getting the facts of proceeding. Seems I cant back her out of this now even by going dark about divorce...
Yes, I totally agree with you mr.bond. And b/c of these failures I am committing to DBing as I should of been all along. You are right also, I am not a psyhic and yet I try to figure what she is thinking. This is so wrong at so many different levels and I know it. Hopefully I will now "get a grip" as I am tired of fouling out.
"not because I don't know what is best, it's because the situation gets the best of me and my emotions still fail me." This is part of a statement I just read on Fartfirle thread written by steve. This is exactly how I feel. I am grown man acting like a wus of all wusses and so far I have been unable to stop it. How/why cant I just trigger something in my heart or brain to say get over her she is over you. Detach,detach, detach and all I keep saying to myself is I am trying, I am trying I am trying to. And still I am unable to. Yes, this sitch as most all others is indeed brutal on many levels. Frankie Valle once sang a hit song, "walk like a man, talk like a man"
Frankie Valle once sang a hit song, "walk like a man, talk like a man"
Oh, how you tried to cut me down to size Tellin' dirty lies to my friends But my own father said "Give her up, don't bother The world isn't comin' to an end" (He said)
Walk like a man, talk like a man Walk like a man my son No woman's worth crawlin' on the earth So walk like a man, my son
Bye bye baby, I don't-a mean maybe Gonna get along somehow Soon you'll be cryin' on account of all your lyin' Oh yeah, just look who's laughin' now (I'm gonna)
Walk like a man, fast as I can Walk like a man from you I'll tell the world "forget about it, girl" And walk like a man from you
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
