"Yesterday, W warned me from taking the kids to my family and if i would defy her she would personally go over to my parents and 'kill' mom disregarding the consequences. I told her to calm down as i'm sticking to our earlier verbal agreement. "
In this country, you call the police or family court when threats like that are made. It also sounds unstable of her.
This was the wrong thing to do. You can't keep giving in to her when she threatens. It's like she's a child who wants to have her way. If you have no choice but to stay with your parents, then it's something she's going to have to deal with. When she threatens to do something like that, just tell her that that is HER choice to do. And then walk away.
Amen
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016