"not because I don't know what is best, it's because the situation gets the best of me and my emotions still fail me." This is part of a statement I just read on Fartfirle thread written by steve. This is exactly how I feel. I am grown man acting like a wus of all wusses and so far I have been unable to stop it. How/why cant I just trigger something in my heart or brain to say get over her she is over you. Detach,detach, detach and all I keep saying to myself is I am trying, I am trying I am trying to. And still I am unable to. Yes, this sitch as most all others is indeed brutal on many levels. Frankie Valle once sang a hit song, "walk like a man, talk like a man"