doubledown I really wish I could tell you what to do! I am here trying to get very similar advise and I have no idea what to do. My wife is in a PA that she has told me several times that it has ended. Only to find out each time that it has not. At this point she says that they still only "talk" but I know that is a lie too. If you are like me, you wish someone out there had some answers. I feel your pain! It has been three months for me and it does not hurt any less despite everyone telling me that it will soon. Since she is still in the affair if feels like an open wound that cant heal until there is some sort of resolution. Hopefully some of the more seasoned people here will have some guidance for you. If you need to vent, I will listen. Hope you find your way!
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