Speculating on the why is probably not going to be worth your while... we could navel gaze on this one for awhile and probably still not come up with her real truth.
But ouch. I think for right now, you have some solid answers on where she is in her current R with you. You offered to be her friend, and the good thing is that you can look yourself in the mirror and know that you can be vulnerable and offer friendship. You're a good egg, SD.
What are you doing for the Labor Day weekend? Any fun plans to place your focus?
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
