I thought I read that the LRT was an option after the affair was revealed and the WAS refused to end it.
Yes MWD does advise LRT, however that is not exposure.
I would say that you biggest weapon is detachment and moving forward with you life.
Stop pursuing and start being the best DAD that you can be.
Yes boundaries are important.
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Leaving a marriage is one thing, but leaving for another person that you are sexualy involved with while your married and have two small children at home is going to put the pressure on her because she'll have to think about how all the people we know, including family, will react.
As far as pressuring her I think that is not going to work. Or may just add fuel to the fire and prolong the affair fantasy.
Shining a light on the affair and making it real where the OM must provide for all of her needs has a better chance of disrupting the affair.
At least that is my understanding of affair busting. Most affairs end, the question is when and how long.
