39:)minus 21 years together.....dont wonder why you are enjoying this. Its been a long time and you met your H young- during the "party"years.
Furthermore- Who cares what the OW did or didnt do. He walked away.
What do you want the end result of this mess to look like? Its your decision, but you need to decide. Once you figure that out your next steps become very easy.
Decide now because at this moment you have lots of doors to choose from- wait longer and continue on and those doors become fewer and fewer.
My biggest fear is that something happens that allow H to play the victim card at the moment YOU realize that you want your family back.
Happy first day back
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
