My friend...[my hands are on your shoulders...looking into your eyes]...dust off that crap and get back up on your feet. Remember you have that delicious fish and chips waiting for you!!!!
In my view, it is good to have some self-awareness about your own LL and H's LL so you can adjust accordingly during DBing. Like Bets said, monitor and take note of things that do WORK. Sometimes some certain things work at certain times and other times the very same thing does not work. It is all due to timing and circumstances. For instance, if H is crabby...you wouldn't try to touch him.
Now back to the good ol' Great Britain stuff...how's that going for you so far?