I do have feelings for H... I just don't know what they are anymore.
Right, that's why you need some time to sort things out without the distractions of a new R. I'm not saying not to date until D, I'm just saying wait until you're sure that's what you want.
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We have so much history together, so I think I will always have unconditional love for him. BUT, I don't think I am in love with him in the same way at all--not be a long-shot.
I know what you mean. I just don't think it's possible to maintain love for someone who doesn't love us back unless it's a limerence thing (which is very unhealthy). I'm not in love with my W anymore. I was thinking about it over the weekend, about how bizarre it would be to have her back in the house and my bed. I used to want nothing more, now she just seems like a stranger to me. I don't think I would even like having her back. If she ever wants to R there's going to have to be a LOT of rebuilding work first.
