Window of opportunity or just a mirage

[2ndtimearoundCA]

My exchanges with w that led up to the Vegas trip being planned and then canceled are all in my previous thread. But briefly, w and I had filed an extension for our taxes and were just finding out at the end of June that we would get a refund. When I found out about the refund, I told w via text and we had a flirty exchange that led to us planning to go to vegas together. I said I would pay, purchased airline tickets, and booked a room. She indicated that she was excited about going. We had minimal communication between he time I booked the tickets and our scheduled trip (3 or 4 weeks time)which was going to happen the weekend after our wedding anniversary (Tuesday July 23). Late Monday night w text me happy anniversary and asked if Vegas was still on. In response to her happy anniversary I responded with something like "it was a wonderful day four years ago and Vegas is definitely still on. " we were to fly out on Friday. Wednesday morning I got a text from w saying "please cancel Vegas trip, I can't go". I initially tried to get clarification as to what happened but she indicated again that she could not go and could not talk on phone because of work meetings that day. I canceled the trip and now have flight credit in both our names. She never gave me an explanation. I took her cancelation as writing on the wall that things were not going to work out. I was about to completely give up on our M when w invited me out for drinks as detailed in the beginning of this thread. So I have a lot of fear of her backing out of stuff.

I am now thinking about texting her today "sorry boating didn't work out this weekend. Would you like to have dinner with me sometime this week?"