What we are saying is supposed to help you...not trying to irritate you. We want to help you SEE that you are allowing her actions to bring you down. And THAT is how you are losing the war, not the fact that she pulled the trigger on your marriage.

You have so much life to live. don't live it in anger.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017