Window of opportunity or just a mirage

[2ndtimearoundCA]

The boating trip was tentative; w knew it was not entirely up to me. When we talked about the boating w seemed very interested in spending time with me. But she backed out the last time we planned to do something, so I didn't trust her. I am guilty of not keeping her informed. I was hoping until the last minute that w would ask me about the trip and then I could suggest something else. When she did bring it up, I did not understand her text ... Just "no boating this weekend :("... What does that mean? I didn't ask her to clarify; I didn't ask her to come join us. Instead I put out there what we were doing hoping she would pursue ... Texting is not always the best communication... Anyway I feel now like maybe I should have asked her to join