Still at Square One!!!

[DFE]

So hung out with H and kids today. Went to the pool, had lunch, got some ice cream. I said bye to him at the ice cream store and he said does that mean I shouldn't come over? So he came over until the kids slept. He is a chatter box. Keeps talking to me about stuff. Tonight it was that we really need to start putting money in our IRA's and talking about our retirement plan. Really? Why? Shouldn't we be talking about D?

We are really good friends right now. We haven't been friends in a long time. I can't remember how long. So although I am enjoy our newly developing relationship part of me is afraid of getting disappointed. I know I know no expectations but that's a tough one.

I am keeping busy and working on me. Have read more books than I can say. My friend asked us to go to a concert. I don't know if I should ask H or not because the kids won't be there. Suggestions?

Do I continue with our relationship like this or do I start putting some distance to help me get over him? I don't want to get hurt again.