I am trying not to read into this but its seriously the only positive in my switch for well over a year.

This weekend H was taking the girls on a weekend at the beach. He was meeting up with his parents, brother, sister and their families at a beach 2 hrs away and they would all stay in the same hotel.

My D4 bday is next week so it would also include a bday celebration.

He has been talking about this trip for weeks with the girls.

I have been mentioning it to the girls. They told me they were excited to see their cousins and that Daddys girlfriend would be coming too.

I assumed she would be going as she has a car and has been taking them on all these family style trips. As much as I hate this I have gotten used to it.

Turns out she did not go. XH borrowed a work car.

I dont think it says much about the status of their relationship only confirms for me that life tells WAS their behavior is not appropriate - I dont have to say a thing.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13