Nobody is shuning her, or shaming her, or punishing her. She is simply being asked to worship somewhere else.
//You know how she would be shamed the most // I am not interested in shaming her.
//Let her FEEL those eyes piercing her back// It is a large church. I don't think anyone other than me and a handfull of other people would even notice. But I would. I would be focusing on her and feel very uncomfortable. Eventually, I would stop attending. Hoefully, over time, this will change. But today, this is how I feel. Somebody needs to change churches. Given the situation, I truly believe it should be her.
//You have that structure, you have that group, you have those marriage advocates. Dont push her away from them! allow her to be close to them. // I am no longer trying to save my marriage. I am not trying to manipulate her, or control her. This is not about her. I want to move forward with my life and emotionally heal. To do that, I feel like I need some space.
