This stuff really can make you ill. I remember visiting my doctor last year for several different issues... and I was normally a very healthy guy! Stress can do whacky things to ya.

I feel the same way as you regarding not always speaking my W's LL as well as I could have over the years. But you know what? It would not have prevented their MLC. It may have gave them less to blame us for, but they'd have found something. (or like in your H's case MADE STUFF UP!!!)

Remember Linda, it's not really about us or the M. Don't fret the past... live in the present.

I'm glad to hear you're doing better. Bust On!

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl