So baby steps continue with my sons as well. This weekend they spent time together building S20 computer. I called, I validated them and told them how proud I was. I got a call back (rare) so it was nice. I got some photo's of the computer put on Facebook, again nice. I mentioned I am coming down to the city next weekend for a double 50th birthday of some friends. I will be free next Sunday, but didn't mention to them it is Father's Day. I will leave that up to them, whether they wish to acknowledge or remember they can spend it with me. I also will not hold it against them, whatever the outcome. I love my boys unconditionally, just like I love the W unconditionally.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.