Also I talked to our landlady who said she thought my W still loves me and that my W had told her only a few weeks ago how opposed she was to D. She says maybe we can make it work. The landlady suggested I maybe send my W flowers? I am guessing this isn't good for the 180 stuff and LC/NC. Still waiting for a DB coach to call me back.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers