Rosa, that list was just a general one to help with some of the concepts. Listen, you are making yourself crazy trying to figure out the detaching and letting go. Don’t. It is a process. It will happen as you continue to walk your path. No worries, ok?
Just try to get the mindset that he is going to do what he is going to do and you cannot control it. And since you cant, you may as well live your life, ya know? Just live it. Do what you want for you. Believe that you are deserving of a good life. He can flap in the breeze right now with his oatmeal and foolishness, but, that is not going to stop you one bit. Get some New York attitude girl. Walk around like you do not have time for the likes of him. LOL!
As for your co-workers, I know that hurts your feelings. But you know what, Rosa, people can feel whatever they want. This is your life and you get to choose. No one’s business. They mean well. They love you. But until they are in the same situation, they cannot know what they would do. Db them, Linda and pay them no mind. I wouldn’t tell them about your sitch anymore. And I would just smile and walk away when they say it again.
My friend, it is time to take care of you. Let everyone else live their own life. It’s Rosa’s time. Get to gettin.
