yes, I often think "well there is certainly a nicer or gentler or more humorous way to do/say that and I know she could do it differently!". She just canceled going to a nice restaurant for dinner, citing that her dance lesson had been moved to 3 hours later - a repeat of her pattern of not doing things together. At least the kids and I had a nice time canoeing today.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
