Yes, more details please. If you believe you are in MLC we'd love to have you here!
Regarding "the blame" as you like to put it, none of us we're perfect partners, and all have area's to work on. Having said that, I do believe MLC can and does hit some of the best marriages. That's because it really is not about the M... well, mostly not.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
