Good to see you, I thought you were going dark on us. (Just kidding!)
You really are doing great, hang in there.
I only have one thing to say about pointing out and blaming. I often say to my children "it's not what you say, it's how you say it". Think of it that way. If you said to W "no we can't be friends and it's your fault because you left", what would the reaction be? It definitely wouldn't be good! However, if you say "W, I want to be friendly for the girls, however, I can't hang out like friends. I am sorry, you chose to move on and I need to do the same", it still points out her decision but without the blame.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
