For now just give her space to think. Start thinking about what you can do for your self as far as 180s and GAL activities. Read Sandi's rules and see which ones fit best to apply to your sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2250607#Post2250607 Keep posting (in one thread) and I am sure others will come along and help you sort though things
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
