Just when I think I am making progress she continues to run and seek this guy first.
If you weren't snooping and listening in on her convo's you wouldn't feel this way, b/c you wouldn't know about it.
So once again, stop snooping!
It only hurts you and makes you angry and that anger could build up and ruin everything if you explode about OM.
Stop torturing yourself with worry over OM. Continue to work hard with your 180's and GAL's and let wife begin to feel the guilt on her own, for her actions, b/c you will have become the man a wife would be a fool to cheat on.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
