I am sorry you find yourself here, along with the rest of us hurt souls.
Im sorry to jump in without too much time passing, but im struggling to keep this question to myself. It is really about the 'elephant',in the room. Have you checked to see if there is another man?
the script she has given you, in 99% of the cases, comes with another man. this would not be the end of the chance to reconcile, but would it be a deal breaker for you?
forget what she has spewed out to you in terms of your faults etc.. A WAW will blame you for world poverty. But what do YOU think is the problem in your marriage? What do YOU not like about yourself?
I don't think BD or moving out were about another man. For the first couple of months, our contact was positive. Now, I don't know. We still have a shared checking account and wireless plan (I still pay the bill). I haven't seen anything suspicious. However, the day she moved out I ASKED her if we could agree to be faithful until we decided what we were going to do. She said that I was being controlling. Of course, I heard, "I'll date and sleep with whoever I want." My greatest anxiety is that she is seeing another man, but I can only get through the day believing otherwise. I know she is deeply depressed and more than a little angry. I don't think she is really in a good place to be seeing other people. For me, I think her dating another man would be point of no return.
