I am sorry you find yourself here, along with the rest of us hurt souls.

Im sorry to jump in without too much time passing, but im struggling to keep this question to myself. It is really about the 'elephant',in the room. Have you checked to see if there is another man?

the script she has given you, in 99% of the cases, comes with another man. this would not be the end of the chance to reconcile, but would it be a deal breaker for you?

forget what she has spewed out to you in terms of your faults etc.. A WAW will blame you for world poverty. But what do YOU think is the problem in your marriage? What do YOU not like about yourself?

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017