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There is so much to respond to in your posts. I read it this morning but wanted to think before I reply. I do believe that you knowing about the affair and NOT mentioning it is to your benefit. It gives you to e to work on yourself without your W thinking you are just doing it to change her mind and end her A.

I have more to say but have to think about, just didnt way you to feel alone. In he meantime, rest assured, Sandi is hear and she has a lot of experience and great advice. I also had an A and was a WAW, so some of my advice will come from what is most likely your Ws perspective, or very similar to it.