I wish I had some wise words of wisdom for you. I don't but I do understand why you feel the way you do.
Something for you to think about: if the Dr. determines she is bipolar (which I would insist on at least one other opinion before going on those meds), how does that change your path? If you can "justify" this behavior does that mean R would still be possible? Just want you to start thinking about it.
I honestly don't see it, I see a very immature, manipulative person but I only catch glimpses into your life.
If you mean justify her flip/flop decisions and not knowing which way she might lean from time to time then that is a maybe. Hard to so from where I am right now. Lying to me and interest in other men...hell no!
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14