Linda, you have so much good advice on your thread. I learn a lot from the posts here. A lot of it applies to me too.

I know it is getting very close to your H’s trip, and it is probably very hard for you right now. But, I hope that you will get some reprieve after he lives. He will not be in your face every day and you will not have to think how to handle yourself and what to say. You can use his trip to your advantage. You can process your feelings in quite.

Hope you are OK.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state