Hello everyone, my D was final on the 20th of Aug 2013 and I thought it was time to move to this portion of the site. It is still very raw and sometimes I am scared, lonely and heartbroken. Those days are getting fewer and fewer however they still exist. I am starting to find my stride again at work and on the home front.

I refinanced the house we lived in so my D14 would have some stability for as long as I could stand living here. The time I think is quickly drawing to an end for me in this house. I am planning on giving it at least until this spring to make a decision about leaving or staying. I am going to have to come up with pros/cons of each. However I think my attachment to this house will win the day.

Curious what some of your sure fire methods were to deal with the absence of a significant other. I know GAL curious what some of you did, who knows I may enjoy it.

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.