pay no mind to the demons; they fill you w/fear

[Whiterose]

Just asked S18 and he does not want to ask.....got a little defensive, I said it was fine either way, but it's obviously a sore spot.

These were more signs between H and our tenant. I've had a few people now say that there may have been an alpha male struggle between the two and that maybe he has feelings for me and I'm just missing it because I'm married, don't think that way as its not an option, but they are saying the tenant is also missing his feelings for me as he is also married (first wife left for an EA) and it is also not an option for him. Now I'm wondering if H's jealousy, although NOTHING has happened between tenant and me, was valid and I just completely missed it all or if these friends are seeing things because they want to. Maybe it added/complicated H's MLC? I'm feeling guilty but for possibly missing things that were running under my radar that may have exasperated the situation