WR,
Then have have the boys contact their father and inquire about the tickets. If he doesn't want to do it, then contact your BIL, but don't wait too long to do so. Your h may have completely forgotten about the tickets w/everything else swirling around in his head.

WR, we all miss some signs along the way because we are way too close to the situation. The more you detach, the more you'll begin to see around you.

Don't look too far into the future because things can surely change on a dime and give you a couple of pennies back. Live each day to the fullest and take it one day at a time.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.