Originally Posted By: doubledown
I don't seem to be getting any responses to my posts since 8/13. Should I be doing something different? I started at Infidelity/extramarital affairs. I was told to go to new comers and have been posting there. I got some nice responses initially, but now I'm lost. I can't seem to get a response.

Can anyone help?!


I posted a response to this on the infidelity forum.

What is it specifically that you are looking for a response to?

Your DB coach has told you one thing and your therapist has told you something different.

What do you think you should do?

I could tell you my opinion but I dont have to live with YOUR choices, YOU do.

I can tell you that MWD does not believe in confrontation and exposure of the affair.
Other websites and places do believe in it.
Go back and read what Sandi wrote to you concerning this, it was good advice.
I would not confront or expose the affair without a very good plan in place.
You only get one chance to do it and then you must live with the consequences.
This site is probably not a great place to develop that plan, being that it goes against their advice.
I think that is all I am going to say for the moment as I dont want to break any rules here either.

I am not an expert on this but I have read a lot.


Me-70, D37,S36