It may look weird in my signature that "W committed to marriage 100%" and two days later says "I don't love you".
I bring this up because I had a good day! To explain the two day change: on 8/13, W contacted me and said she was willing to commit 100% if I would help her with some emergencies - basically pay some stuff for her. We agreed I'd buy her a new tire (her's was showing metal thread), pay for my step-son's school bill, and I'd pay her half of the cell phone bill. This would allow her to catch up.
It seemed strange to me to trade money for commitment, so I asked her for a text or email confirming her commitment - she refused, saying she'd rather do it in person. I told her I'd prefer to wait to make the payments until we talked then, and asked where we could meet. She said she was too busy that day, and I immediately got suspicious. My first wife's lawyer told her to get all the money she could before filing divorce, and I thought this was the same deal - I told W no go until I got the words from her. However, I went ahead and made the payments, and sent her the confirmations, warning her I could reverse them if she was lying.
She immediately threw a fit, said she was done playing games, that I was being shady, and she was filing divorce. I told her that I had already kept my end of the agreement, but she said it didn't count since I acted shady.
My darned bank took forever, but today I was able to send her copies of the original payments I scheduled, and the completed payments that finally showed up last night. So now she knows she was completely in the wrong; I said nothing except here's the statements, and I kept my agreement. Sent via email, no conversation.
