Maybe she's just a hurt, mixed-up person, with bad skills like... hmmmmm, the rest of us.
No matter what she is, says, does or suffers from, it really doesn't change YOUR path.
Really think about your decision to not spend your S's b-day as a family. Usually we want to teach people a lesson because they've angered us and usually under that anger is hurt and fear.
You wanted to show her.
So your emotions pushed you to do something that takes something away from your son...who's 3, and it's his special day. He only wants to be held and loved by mommy and daddy.
You're run by your emotions, W is run by hers. Does it create you some empathy in you to see that.
Slow down, think.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss