Luke,

I feel like you were posting about this exact same dynamic two years ago and maybe before I started reading too. Your life is slipping by and you are unhappy.

What are you going to do?

No one is going to change this but you. If you've been posting here for 9 years you've probably gotten all the advice you're going to get -- what are YOU going to do with it?


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015